I was just thinking about this. I am single. I have always been single. So I know what its like to be single and have everyone else around me not be. But seriously. I don’t think people who are married with kids think about those who are single like they used to be single. Do they? I mean it. Do they actually go okay I am not single anymore. I did something right with my life. Things fell into place so its great. This is how its supposed to be.
They forget that once they were single too. They once didn’t have a special someone a family kids. Things that they once have. I think my perspective on others issues might prove that when I am finally NOT single I will be like I remember what it was like to be single. Because I will still recall it. And anyone else who might still be.
I am a big past believer. I love to live in the past. Dwell in it even. I shouldn’t of course. But so I remember what it was like to work places, live places, have different lives. It dawns on me sometimes that I have say a job now that I didn’t have last month at this time. Last month I was hopeless. I hadn’t worked in 1 year and nearly 3 months. So I look back now and I am like wow I remember not having a job and how much it sucked.
I just wish case in point that those who are married with kids and stuff. They would sometimes remember what it was like to be single. And maybe if they think deeply like I do remind themselves how they got to get to the point they are at in life. How they got to you know not be single. How things worked out for them. Because sadly for people like me who are still single it isn’t so easy. Life doesn’t just fall into place for everyone…so that is how it used to be for them and me too…
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